Minimalist

One does not simply try and attempt to impress everyone. 

Last night, I was involved in an argument — an online argument — where my emotions ran out of its cage. I was neither happy nor sad about what had happened. It’s just, I’ve realized that there is one thing I keep on learning and it is “YOU CAN’T PLEASE EVERYONE”.  Most people would just sit down and wonder… why?  Yes. The main question for those who are still lying on the immature line is, “why can’t I please everyone?” and deeper questions would come and try not to go. 

People are entitled to have their own opinions and it is always divided into three sides — positive, neutral and negative. LOL, Science xD Well, minsan kokontra na lang tayo sa mga sinasabi ng ibang tao against us or in another case, pag positive, nahihiya tayong i-admit sa sarili natin kasi iniisip natin na nakakahiya whatsoever. Kanya kanyang tastes lang yan pag dating sa maliliit na bagay. But there are still times that we can’t accept the fact that someone dislikes your own personality. IMO, parang ang immature na nun diba? Ako, kung may negative akong natatanggap, minsan wala lang or mas maganda kung babaguhin ko yun para ma-improve yung sarili ko. Pag alam kong sila ang mali or if someone is just bashing me, I’ll be forced to fight kasi maputak na tao ako. Ahahaha.  Pero yun nga, dahan dahan na lang din ;) (And I’m still undergoing sa proseso ng pagbabago o CHANGE kasi may “attitude” problem at may pagkamaldita din ako lalo na sa mga taong mapang-abuso xD)

At times, we just need to respect their opinions because they’re just saying what’s on their mind or their reactions. If someone doesn’t like you kahit wala ka namang ginagawang masama sa kanila, ang gawin mo na lang ay give them respect (kahit may mga tao talagang di deserving >:)) ‘cause HATERS GONNA HATE. Loljks. Kung ayaw nila sayo kahit nakatayo ka lang WAG MO NA LANG PANSININ :D

OPEN-MINDEDNESS is a key to a good relationship ;) 

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HA.BRD.

Wala akong balak siraan ka kung sino ka man… Ang akin lang, hindi mo na sana sinabi sa ibang tao na iniwan kita sa ere dahil pinagsabihan na kita in the first place. I even tried to help you to get out of the situation para ma- “at peace” na sana yung utak mo dahil nakakabother diba? Hindi ako mangingialam kung hindi ka sa akin humingi ng advice at nagkwento noon. Whatever. Nasisira ako, and I don’t want that. I’m not going to alter any story or lie about this situation just to make myself LOOK GOOD and FEEL GOOD ‘cause it won’t.  

Turo po sa akin ng nanay ko na wag magsinungaling just to get other people’s sympathy.

To those people who doesn’t know… Here’s the story…

Last year, may “friend” ako na babae. For the record, she even called me her “best friend” but I would only call someone my best friend kung magkakilala na kami at close for  more than three years but what the heck, she’s my friend so whatever. 

One day, she and her cousin (male) went on Omegle and met some random Indonesian girl and even tweeted her under the name “Raph” (raph_lee) (btw, they made a dummy account because they don’t want to give out their personal information — wanna know? LOL, read the rest of the story, dummy) Blah blah blah, they were friends. I was actually involved since my “friend” asked for pics and I gave her my “dummy account” and it contained the photos of my cousin’s bestfriend (I will not mention their names for I’d rather keep them in private na lang- btw, lalaki din na pogi, Jio po ang pangalan >:)) ) Ayun, she told me about that girl and she was saying that she’s nice. Tapos weeks later… I think? Parang nagkakaroon na ng something deeper between dun sa cousin niya. parang they’re already having a mutual understanding. (ATM, I don’t know anything about that guy kasi as far as I remember, I just asked once pero parang wala naman akong matandaang clear answer and I never had a conversation with her cousin) Sinabihan ko yung “friend” ko na, itigil na yun dahil masasaktan yung Indonesian girl pag nalaman niya na “Raph” doesn’t exist. She said she told her cousin pero I can’t remember what happened na. Di na lang ako nakialam…

Start ng summer. Yung “Friend” kong iyon, sinabihan ako na magSkype kami. And I went online sa skype only to find out that she’s chatting with the Indonesian girl and her Indonesian best friend (obvious ba?) Sinabi niya na samahan ko siya kasi mag-isa lang daw siya. Nakakahiya blah blah blah. Ako naman, tanggi ako ng tanggi, pero for the sake na wag siyang magalit I just agreed even though it is against my will. (Ayoko na kasi ng away. Nag-away kasi kami ng madaming beses na from January - Feb. Halos every Thursday tapos weekly. Bongga diba?) So okay nakipagusap ako knowing na pati yung privacy ko as an Internet User ay nilabag ko na. Against talaga ako sa pakikipagusap sa random people over the net for many safety reasons.  Sabi sa akin nung friend kong yun na makipagusap ako, eh nahihiya din naman ako dahil hindi nga ako komportable sa situation na yun. Si “Friend” was asking me a favor to help her end the connection between those Indonesian girls and them. And I was telling her to tell the truth but she insisted that we should do an alternative kasi daw masasaktan yung Indonesian girl na nafa-fall na kay “Raph” PWEDE BA MAGKAROON NG WAY NA HINDI MASASAKTAN YUN? Eh pinaniwala niyo siya sa mga bagay na hindi totoo at hindi nage-exist. Yun ang nasa kaloob looban ko. Pinipilit ko talaga siya na sabihin yung totoo. Pero napunta pa sa point na nagduda yung best friend nung Indonesian girl at humihingi na sa amin ng proof na “RAPH DOES EXIST” something like that. So ito naman si “Friend” nakahanap ng vid via Youtube of my cousin’s bestfriend —Jio — tapos pina-edit niya sa akin yun tapos pati pic nag edit din ako sa Photoshop, kungwari kasama niya si Jio. 

Haaay, ayun na yung nangyari, nalaman ng pinsan ko tapos ang totoo, natawa at medyo nainis din naman. Nakakainis kasi yung mga poser diba? Oo, kasalanan ko na binigay ko yung pics/profile info. But whatever I am taking the consequences and I DO HAVE A PLAN TO END IT. 

Si “friend” sinabi sa akin na nalaman na nung Indonesian girls yung totoo blah blah blah na minura daw siya. Basta sinabihan ko na siya na wala na ako dun before that happened. Ginawa ko lang yung hinihingi niya sa aking “pabor”.

Weeks later. 
Nakita ko may  minention siya na “@iamjio17” sa twitter (THIS IS AN ACTIVE ACCOUNT). Image below is my friend as @iamjio17 Ayun, medyo nagduda ako kasi sinabi niya sa akin na “WALA NA DAW YUN”.  So I asked for my cousin’s help na tulungan ako para lang matigilan yung poser ni Kuya Jio. (Ha? FC xD Respect na lang po) Nagkaroon din ako ng OUTRAGE nung gabi na kinausap ako ng “Friend ” ko sa FB kasi hindi talaga ako makapaniwala na niloloko niya ako. I thought that the issue was over pero hindi pala. May Part II. Ano to? Sequel te? Sinasabi niya sa akin sa chat na wala na talaga. Tapos I told her na wag na sanang pagusapan ulit to. Pero hindi eh. (Sige I DENY MO PA NA WALA NA YUN. WAG NIYO NA GAMITIN YUNG PANGALAN NUN. PLEASE.)

Biglang nagPM sa amin yung mutual friend namin tinatanong ako kung anong nangyari. And it was about the “raph” thing. So sinabi niya. Tapos nalaman ko na sinabi din niya na iniwan ko daw siya sa ere nung sinisiraan siya nung Indonesian girls at sinisisi ko siya sa lahat. So I was so mad. Eh ako pa naman yung tipong ayaw sa sinungaling. Sino bang gusto? Nakakaloko lang dre. Kaibigan kita tapos ganyan ginagawa mo. Diba sinabi ko sayo na wag mo nang ipagsabi sa iba para di nag magkagulo? Eh sinabi mo pa rin so right ko lang din naman na ipagtanggol ang sarili ko. 

Tapos humantong na in-unfollow niya ako sa Twitter (I believe due to my indirect offensive tweets, ano naman? It’s a free country, pero may pagkakamali ako dahil marahas masyado ata. Ewan. Basta galit ako) And she even told her review mate who is also my friend na nagaway kami. Jusko? BROADCAST te? Why not keep it to yourself? Eh may pagkamaldita ako kaya iisipin nila na AKO NANAMAN, and SAMA SAMA NG UGALI KO. Whatever. It’s is my right to speak up and defend myself against your false accusations.

Sana matapos na to. The truth is, my cousin is not really mad pero mahirap na din maging involved lalo na POSERS. AHAHAHA xD

Sana bawiin mo na yung mga sinabi mo against sa akin dahil I knew my mistake in the first place. Kung may nasabi akong di maganda, sorry. PERO GRABE LANG. GRABEHAN.

Dun po sa cousin niya, kung mahal niyo po talaga yung “girl” please, magpakatotoo na po kayo dahil it is the solution to a good relationship. Sorry po kung nangingialam pero related po kasi sa akin ang involved dito.

Omegle is bad for you folks xD

leeann1d:

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• I will check out all the 15 blogs + follow back some :)
• must be following me
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unstableone:

JR: Daddy, bili mo ko SWORD..

DADDY: Aba, Lalaking lalaki
anak ko ah! cge ibibili kita…

(paghawak ng anak sa sword)

JR: Ako c Reyna Amihan!
Humanda ka Pirena… 

I don’t own this, whoever made this, YOU’RE A GENIUS!!